In backstop country there is a lads culture. If you are feeling a bit low, get over yourself and carry on drinking. Troubling others with your state of wellbeing is not really a thing here.
Young male suicides in Northern Ireland are at frightening levels and many celebrities have spread the word that talking about depression is helpful.
Women appear to be better about sharing their feelings and offering each other support. I do not find it easy to reveal uncomfortable emotional stuff to friends or family, but when I do, it comes as a huge relief and surprise just how much empathy and understanding can help.
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